Gift Giving Etiquette
by The Gift Wizard

Is there such a thing as gift giving etiquette? Of course! There are quite a few DOs and DONTs of gift giving. Remember, though, that each situation will be a little different from the next, just as individuals differ from each other. Weve done a little research to provide a basic gift giving guide. These arent set in stone, but they should give you a good idea about how to approach gift giving in most situations.


GIFT GIVING ETIQUETTE

Dinner or Party Invitation?

When someone invites you over for a get together, youll want to bring a small gift to show your appreciation for the invitation. This could include a candle, flowers, or a bottle of wine.

Please, No Gifts

If youve been invited to a birthday party, graduation party, anniversary celebration, wedding, or any gift giving occasion and the invitation specifically reads: No Gifts, Please, then it is appropriate to respect that request. If you feel that you must bring something, try a card or some other very small sentiment.

Is money an appropriate gift?

It is appropriate to give money in a few (sparse) situations, like when a teen-ager asks for it. But try to avoid giving money. Its more thoughtful to give a gift certificate or gift card, but only if you take the time to consider the the appropriate store or restaurant. Pick something that will be enjoyable and/or useful for the gift recipient.

Other Gift Giving Hints

- Dont give loud toys to children

- Dont give things that YOU want

- Always try to wrap a gift. If you dont have the time or talent to make it look nice, spend a dollar on a gift bag and some tissue paper.

- Include a card with your gift, and actually write a personal note in it

- Dont re-gift a present that you have been given unless a) it is still in its original packaging, b) its appropriate for the next recipient, and c) the re-gifting will NOT be discovered (by the original giver or the new recipient)

- Always get a gift for a wedding, even if you cant attend (unless no gifts were requested)

- Always bring a gift to a shower, but dont feel obligated to do so if you arent able to attend

Business Gift Giving

Business gifts are appropriate in the following situations:

- Close of a business deal (beware of international etiquette)

- Group gifts for a retirement, serious illness, or other momentous occasion

- Holidays (like a Secret Santa or grab bag)

In a business situation, dont give gifts that are:

- Personal in nature (perfume, red roses, etc.)

- Only from you (give outside of the office in this situation)

- In violation of company policy (check your company guidelines)

- Not considerate of a persons culture, diet, environment, etc.

GIFT RECEIVING ETIQUETTE

When you receive a gift, no matter what you think of it, say Thank you. Accept any gift politely and remember that its a GIFT that was not necessary.

Thank You Notes

Thank You notes are highly regarded in the gift giving etiquette world. They are particularly common after a bridal shower, baby shower, or wedding. However, if you opened your gift in front of the giver when it was given, then a Thank You note isnt absolutely necessary, although it is still appropriate. Thank You notes dont have to be completely formal, either. The importance is in the sentiment.